"The Law of Attraction attracts to you everything you need,
according to the nature of your thoughts. Your environment
and financial condition are the perfect reflection of your
habitual thinking."
-- Joseph Murphy
If the Law of Attraction Hasn’t Worked for You,
You May Not be Doing These Three Things.
Copyright 2005 Melissa Quiter
You may have thought that you struck gold when you first
became aware of the Law of Attraction. Learning that every
desire you ever wanted is yours simply by asking the
universe to give it to you, is nothing short of amazing.
The proof of its validity is backed, not by theory, but by
science. Quantum physics and the universal laws explain
that everything is made of energy. Everything. Therefore,
your thoughts and desires are simply non-physical realities
that have yet to be manifested in the physical. All that is
required, to manifest the non-physical seed of thought to a
physical reality in your life, is to nurture that seed with
your focused energy. The only restrictions are that you
don’t focus on what you don’t want or you will get more of
that; and that you allow what it is that you desire to come
to you.
If you are like me, you thought, wow! This is too good to
be true. I have been struggling and worrying for so many
years when all I had to do to create the life of my dreams
was to ask and receive.
And so you began. You did the first and most imperative
requirement for any truth to be realized, you believed. You
learned all you could about this ‘new,’ cutting-edge
philosophy that, actually, has been around for thousands of
years. You read the books, listened to the CDs and found
like-minded others in order to learn more, and master this
skill of attracting. You asked. Waited. And looked for the
results.
And it worked, sort of, but not quite, and certainly not
every time. Everything you wanted didn’t seem to come quite
as easily as you thought it was supposed to. Some things
came. That was amazing and cool. However, many things did
not. That was a bit frustrating. You still aren’t driving
that dream car you envisioned up to your million-dollar
home on the lake or in the mountains. Like you, I thought,
"Why is this not working for me? Did I falsely believe,
even though my intuition so strongly supported me? Why does
it work sometimes and not all of the time? What am I
missing?"
After hundreds of books, programs, discussions and personal
experiences, I am ecstatic to report that the Law of
Attraction and its foundation are real. I have seen it work
over and over and over again. You can create and manifest
everything you ever truly desire in life. No exceptions.
Every time. But, here’s the information that you may be
missing (that I was missing!): The Law of Attraction works
when you have met three requirements.
These requirements, or steps, are not complicated or
foreign. They are extremely simple and natural. However,
when something is simple that doesn’t mean it is easy.
Since most of us were guided away from this natural "knowing"
from the time we were born, it is not easy to change what
we have been taught for so many years. Expanding and
evolving takes time and patience. This, in fact, is the
most important thing you must know:
The Law of Attraction is a process. It takes time
to become the deliberate creator of your life.
The first requirement of being a
deliberate creator is acknowledging where you are starting.
Just like the airplane pilot must know where the plane is
taking off from in order to know how to get to the desired
destination, you must tap into where you are right now. You
are there for a reason. You are always the creator of your
life – be it deliberate or by default. You may not
consciously know why you are where you are, but parts of
you in your subconscious do know. In fact, those parts have
manifested exactly what they desired. Simply imposing your
conscious desires on the other 88% of your mind, cannot
work. You have to start with where you are.
The second requirement of being a deliberate creator and
allowing the Law of Attraction to work is articulating what
you desire based on the totality of your life; accounting
for all segments. Your life is divided into multiple areas
of living -- called environments. You don't choose one
environment to create, and leave all the others to fend for
themselves. You create for all areas simultaneously. If you
desire increased responsibility at your job, you don't
forget that you also love and need your pastimes or that
you want time with your family. You must take into account
all your environments to ensure you are not creating
conflicting intentions that end up sabotaging your focus
and canceling out everything you think you are creating.
The third requirement is clearing the slate [pathway] for pure,
focused energy to flow. There is a wonderful analogy that explains
the importance of this missing element. Most people know
that when you cook, there are many things that must be
in place to ensure the desired result. If a professional
chef buys all the best ingredients, has an incredible
recipe and the best utensils and appliances, but uses a
dirty bowl to mix, the meal will be ruined no matter what
that chef does. It cannot work. Likewise, if you start creating
from a bowl that is caked with old food (ideas, habits, beliefs
and behaviors), whatever you attempt to create on top of it
will be tainted. It's the same with life. You cannot create
what you desire if you have not cleared away what is already
in your bowl. The way I found to remove those blocks is to go where
those blocks are structured – in the subconscious mind.
Through the use of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), the
blocks can be addressed, embraced and released leaving a
clean slate [pathway] for your pure, focused energy to flow.
By fulfilling these three requirements, deliberate creation
is absolutely possible and the Law of Attraction really works!
And, remember, this is all a process. You don’t just learn this
and then, poof, you are a master. You must give yourself
time to practice and learn. The key is that you cannot go
through the process until you know the process is needed.
So, now you know! Enjoy the amazing journey ahead.
About the Author:
Melissa Jean Quiter is an inspirational life and business
strategist with Provocative Communications. She is the
author of the book, "My Cat Made Me a Millionaire ...
and the four-phase, life and business-changing program,
“Being Spiritual Doesn’t Mean Being Poor!" To learn more,
visit her website:
www.ProvocativeCommunications.com
or send an email to:
Quiter@Texas.net.
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"The more you see yourself as what you’d like to become, and act as if what you want is already there, the more you’ll activate those dormant forces that will collaborate to transform your dream into your reality."
-- Dr. Wayne Dyer
